Tuesday, August 7, 2018

Life Lately: Volume 2

Watching: Random Netflix movies  that tickle my fancy. I’m in a serious need of series worth binge-watching. Recommendations, anyone? 💙

Listening: while the lot are into Drake’s “In my Feelings”, I put myself in constant heartsick state with Ed Sheeran’s Happier. The music you listen to may not always have to do something about you. Defensive? Nope. I just anticipate how mind works. *winkwink!

Food: Leche flan is my latest achievement unlocked in the kitchen series! I actually tried a number of dishes last month between my back to back 4 legssss (lol yes motivation is the key), though for laziness reason, I now lost like most of it. Nevertheless, my friends haven’t commented any improvement tips on my leche flan- either it was really that good for a first try or they love me THAAAT much. Haha. Needless to say, I’m planning to make one again tomorrow!

Last Place I Visited: Colombo, Sri Lanka. Seafood was awesome as always but the pairing made me cranky which I believe is a normal aftermath of duty time with 14 hours or so~ good thing I finally got their snow globe edition because I ain’t bidding for it unless I need so.

Reading: None. Sad. :(

Playing: PUBG. wasn’t active as I was before but it is still my most used app in game category. The fiancé was persuading me to get the Nintendo Switch and I’m now like 50% convinced yet still waiting for a new reason to persuade me otherwise!

Random: Turning a year older in few days time and me being totally non ecstatic about it is a constant reminder just how old I’m becoming. Perhaps because life was a little rough lately, but I like to believe I'm handling it well. After all, The world isn’t all sunshine and rainbows, is it?

Thursday, March 29, 2018

The Surgeon + Little Book Haul (March 2018)

The surgeon is one of my cheap purchases in some bargain section from my last layover, over a year ago in Kuala Lumpur. It was the last left unread on my little book collection, aka - perfect excuse to pause my self-imposed ban on suspenseful, disturbing, thrilling and you know, anything related to such kind of read. After two days of getting engrossed, my craving was well satiated. Too well that I had to double check the locks of all the possible entries in my room and kept the lights on the entire night. Paranoia level x 1000. My rating on Goodreads: 4 stars.

The story revolves around Catherine Cordell - a physician winning at her career in the present, yet unfortunately, with a dark past. She was raped two years ago. Even when the assaulter was killed from  her self defense, still she find herself struggling for safety. She kept on receiving threats from an anonymous psychopath with ways similar to that of her case and of the three murdered women who also happened to be raped victims. Upon the investigation of these cases and the terrors she received, she met Detective Thomas Moore, who, eventually, became her lover. Lol sorry for the spoiler, but hey, it is something you would sense in the beginning; at least I saved you from wondering if Thomas is the killer or not. I wouldn’t want to spoil any more details of this mystery, so know the rest the of the story by yourself. Just know this grabbed me since page one :)

You know how some people are overly obsessed with buying books and everything ends up inside the shelf, as display, and unread? I cannot blame them, as personally for me, buying books is just as joyful as getting a new purse. But anyway, it is something I try hardly to avoid. When I realized nothing was left unread from my last book haul, I knew it's about  time for another book shopping spree :) yay

 I set my goal on 30 for the number of books I'd like to read for this year. Surely work and other priorities are always there yet I'm not lowering my aim. I'm open to read any sort of genre but my eyes will always search for heartbreaking, tear-jerker, family-related, pageturner kind of read. You will notice it's the common denominator from the four I recently bought.

  • Room by Emma Donoghue - I've been wanting to read this for the longest time. I know of the movie adaptation, yet because I believe books will always be better, I settled on the paperback copy first before the screen.
  • Life and Teachings of the Prophet Muhammad by Farida Khanam - Alhamdulillah for my conscience and its super discounted price that made me bought this. I wouldn't deny my ignorance of my religion and I'm fully aware there's much I need to learn.
  • And The Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini - I first fell in love with The Kite Runner, then fell even more with A Thousand Splendid Suns - anyone who asked for my recommendation would know that despite my number of heartbreaks from this book, still it is always the first I recommend. I hope this third one will not disappoint.
  • The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah - because I gave five stars for Kristin Hannah's The Nightingale. She could be my next favorite writer.

So that's all for my little haul. Schedule was a bit tight this month so I haven't had the chance to finish anything yet. Vikings marathon from season two is also on my list, plus there's the hype of PUBG that the boyfriend recently introduced to me. lol. Would you believe I was the first kill in a match with 100 players?  yes, I suck like that. lol anyway, practice makes perfect and skill is learned; plus next month's schedule is a bit chill so in sha Allah I'll have too much time for all these. 💙

Thanks for the read, xoxo

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Thursday, February 15, 2018

In Place Where Everything Is Made Of (?) (Guangzhou, China)

It was quite recently when China made their crew visa validity into full year rather than the old, 6 months term. I used to exclude China layover on my desired places to bid, as my attempt to avoid the hassle of visa application. When I heard the good news, I knew it was finally time I work on requirements and explore the country where everything is made of.

There's nothing better in Guangzhou than its legit Chinese food. Asians will always be Asians and  although my mother could probably only mention fried rice as the food I can eat all day, everyday; we, Filipinos know just how well we adapted the Chinese cuisine. So a taste of Chinese food in between kebabs, shawarma and biryani is definitely a taste of home.

The prices of these humongous servings are comparable to that of Phils so even the budget itself feels homey. Alhamdulillah my housemate discovered a halal certified restaurant, so eating Chinese food worry-free, became more heavenly.

Above is the address for the mentioned restaurant. Just present it to the taxi driver as communication may be quite challenging when  you have zero knowledge of their native language. I recommend having google translate app ready and a list of places you would like to visit in Chinese translation.

Of course shopping comes second. I had no plan of buying a lot but the low prices are too much to disregard. With good haggling skills, you can get the items for only half of the prices in our local boutiques in Philippines. I came back to our hotel carrying a plastic full of cheap clothes, footwear and whatnot.
Because we went out straight after the flight plus the 10 degree weather I was not prepared of,  I believe any picture of myself on that day isn't worth sharing in this blog. lol. Still I hadn't went through a full tour of the city, perhaps later, when the temperature will feel like that of Philippines.
Short layover indeed, but I can say no regrets on the hassle of visa application. :)

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Monday, February 12, 2018

Life With Wings : Pros and Cons

I can still freshly recall the days of my admirable discipline when the main thing I prayed for was for me to become a flight attendant. From boosting my self-confidence, to practicing all the easy make up tricks, and maintaining my body weight. Confession: I tried the military diet with little modification, yet the calorie count was overall the same. My fear of exceeding my weight limit was overwhelming I had grown used on having satisfactory stomach, until I got to the point when losing one more kilo and my weight will be under the limit. My undying determination after being rejected on my first attempt is another thing I keep in mind. Remembering such days has become my way of being optimistic on moments when I can no longer picture myself in my all blue uniform years from now. Behind the luxury and glam, flight attendant's life isn't all smiles.

A month ago, someone left a comment on my contact page inquiring about the pros and cons of being a flight attendant. I apologize that it took me a month to respond but I've spent my days recently only in 36000 ft, otherwise, on sleeping off.

So, I figured, for some reason, it's always better to begin with the downside:

  • Health -  changes in timezone, jetlag, not to mention  the long hours of standing which is why I never considered knee-high stockings. The variation in working hours is a major con as well; today I'm having a night flight, tomorrow I'll have an early morning one. How do you adjust your sleep with that? Sleeping pills has become best friend of some, but no matter how naturally made the label claims to be, I always choose the natural way. I believe I have mastered the art of changing my sleeping pattern. 
  • You are never home - on most occasions. Alhamdulillah for our company, they give us the eventuality of going home every once in a while. Some girls do it monthly by the way, yet only after the headache of bidding and trading. Even with such benefit, the probability of being home on every family occasion there is, is impossible. I remember spending my 25th birthday alone in our apartment, relying on the internet connection to bury the truth that despite my gratefulness for all the blessings I received, there was a small part of me that wished I was in somewhere else. The number of monthsaries I spent physically together with my boyfriend is countable within my fingers. I missed both of my parents' birthday last year; and for this year's record, I might not be present on my niece' first ever graduation day. 
  • Pleasing people - is the most usual thing you'd do next to breathing. I remember my old teenage self reblogging typographies on how we should never care what others would think and we are not obligated to please everyone. You may wonder how I survive my everyday work, but I believe that's what maturity does to people. When you start a customer-oriented job, you must prepare yourself  with abundance of patience for people who will blame and complain on you on every possible reason there is. Being open-minded and putting yourself into their shoes help most of the time. Certainly there will be instances when people will become too irrational on you and the thought of it won't easily just go away. Emotions will overrule your senses.I do not tolerate inferiority, but daily and slowly, I'm learning not to take things personally; and maybe, just maybe, I think this has become my fate for me to learn and practice the beautiful patience and understanding (which actually makes me think this could pass on the positive side).
  • You do not get to practice your profession - Obviously a personal note because this is something I miss on random nights. Sure I had passengers with headache, fever, and all that, but these are incomparable on the adrenaline of saving someone in the middle of life and death. 

Plus side:

  • Travel - I've been on destinations I never  thought I could visit before. Explored 13 countries in my less than two years experience in this job; and the likelihood of adding more to that due to other destinations we operate, plus the perks of free and discounted tickets is a major plus. I was never the wanderlust enthusiast and travelling wasn't my top reason why this has become my dream, but as I experienced exploring city one after the other, I understood why someone would save up for it. 
  • Going Home - every once in a while, apart from our yearly vacation is still so much better than going home only once a year. Other professionals weren't blessed with such privilege and this is one of the main reasons why I chose this career and my company.
  • Salary - I tried submitting my application as a nurse abroad, and with my three years of experience in my profession, I was offered with only half of my salary today. Their basis is something I have no idea of, but same thing happens in the Philippines - newly hired flight attendants earn more than newly hired nurses.
  • Different set of colleague every working day - with an exception of my flying partner of course. Conflicts in workplace could be something unavoidable; the good thing is,  the bitch I flew with today will be as good as non existent for the next months or years or forever. Unless I become very, very, very, unfortunate, I will get to work with her again the next day. 
  • You get to learn a little something about other nationalities - Flying to other destinations means interacting with their people as well. Between the small talks and greetings, plus good observation, you can differentiate one nationality from the other.
  • Upgrading your interpersonal skills on the next level - I wasn't always good with small talks and I believe I still am. Obviously I'm still not the "ma-PA" type, yet because I work with various kinds of people everyday, it taught me well how to adjust and become more friendlier. lol

So I think that's that. Please know that everything here is based on my personal experience, so the pros and cons may vary with each person. To end this post, here's a caption I posted just days before my graduation way back in 2016 <3

All these new experiences make me feel that I'm living up to my full potential :-)

Nothing but love, xoxo